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Ladies Dance Floor Survival Tips 101

In my last post Why You Shouldn’t Dip Your Dance Partners, there was no shortage of “whip dip” injury stories from the ladies and gratitude for sharing some thoughts on why dipping may not be such a slick idea. Now, with hopefully more gentlemen thinking twice before dipping, what happens if you get someone who doesn’t? Or gets really creepy close while dancing with you? Let’s find out.

Social dancing is an incredible release of expression and emotion. It’s fun, playful, sometimes even sexy. But sometimes it just gets downright uncomfortable and creepy. Guys, you never want to be in that latter category. The ladies just don’t like it and chances are she’ll never say “Yes” to a dance request from you again (and yes, it’s actually a request!).

Ladies, if you find yourself in an uncomfortable position, these next two tips are for you. Fellas, if you notice her doing one of these two things, please adjust course!

Tip 1: How to Avoid Getting Dipped

Have an injury, don’t trust your dance partner, or just really don’t enjoy getting dipped? Then this one’s for you ladies. But hold up a second, let’s rewind a quick moment so the guy’s know why you might not want that dip. Here’s a shortlist:

  • Does she have the technical ability to be dipped safely?
  • Do you know how to dip properly and safely?
  • Does she trust you, a stranger?
  • Is there enough space on the dance floor?
  • Are there other couples around that could hit her?
  • Does she have an injury that might flare up?
  • Is she ready to expose what’s under that really nice dress of hers?
  • Did you ASK her if it’s okay to dip her?

Now back to regularly scheduled dance floor survival programming….

It doesn’t much matter your reason – if you don’t want to be dipped, Scarlet has a simple fool proof solution she throws down anytime she finds herself with a lead her wants to, well, throw her down. Let’s take a look…

It’s dead simple. Feel a dip coming on? Step that outside leg back! Is he trying again? Step back, step back, step back. You’re now invincible from unwanted dippage.

Now what if you find yourself with a guy who doesn’t want to dip you, but is a little overexcited to pop that personal space bubble of yours?

Tip 2: What to Do When He Gets Too Close

Don’t get me wrong guys, there’s plenty of ladies who enjoy some proximity in salsa, bachata, kizomba or whatever you may be dancing. But it’s not called for all the time, and the chemistry just has to be right. If you’re not sure if you’re too close, or if you’re not sure if she’ll be OK with it, just don’t go there. Give her space. If you get some winky “come here” vibes well then game on.

Now ladies, what if he misreads your signals or is completely deaf to all body language and social signals and continues to push past your proximity comfort zone? Here’s another simple tip from Scarlet to slither your way out of discomfort.

  1. Take your left arm, place it on his shoulder and push back to create some space.
  2. Did he pull you in again? Repeat step 1 and let him know you prefer to have a little space.

Whatever you do or say the most important thing is to do it respectfully. Everyone is out to have a good time and there’s no need to rude or disrespectful. Dancing is all about communication, so do your best to be understood. If you’ve done your best and he really doesn’t get the message then you have every right to walk off the dance floor. Unfortunately it happens, but you never have to accept a dance with him again. It’s totally up to you.

What do you think?

Did you find these tips useful? Are you going to put them into practice next time you go out? Have a story to tell? Let us know in the comments below!

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A Brief History of TANGO – Part 1 of 4

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Tango dancing is more than beautiful. It might have been created more than 100 years ago, but it’s still cool to watch and dance. In part one of this LDC segment entitled “TANGO: The other Latin dance” we talk about the origins of the dance and the music from the poor neighborhoods of Buenos Aires in the mid-nineteenth century to the beginning of the Golden Era with Carlos Gardel.

A Brief History of Tango – Part 2

Overcoming Intimidation on the Dance Floor

Let’s face it. Stepping out on the dance floor is often terrifying. No matter your level and how long you’ve been dancing, there’s always a bigger fish. There’s always someone (or multiple people) out there who seem like they are better than you are, more experienced, and more confident.

It’s easy to let the intimidation win and to talk yourself out of ever getting on the dance floor in the first place.

So how do you overcome those feelings and enjoy yourself?

Dance like no one’s watching…because they aren’t. They’re too busy checking their phones.

Joking aside, realize that most people are concerned with themselves. You might think that everyone is watching you, but chances are, they’re not. Chances are, they’re absorbed in their own world. Remember, if you’re feeling self-conscious or intimidated, there are probably multiple people out there in the same boat.

So instead of being so concerned with what everyone else is thinking and doing, be concerned with yourself. You are the only person you can truly control on the dance floor, so start with you.

Focus on having the best dance that you can— relax your mind and pay attention to only yourself, your partner, and the music. Be the best lead or follow that you can be in that moment and don’t worry about anyone else. You have to put blinders on in a way— of course, you need to be aware of other people so you don’t run into them, but you don’t have to attach to what they’re doing.

Recognize that the moment is fleeting

One of the best things about social dancing is that a social dance only exists in the moment that it happens. Yes, people take videos, but people don’t necessarily go out dancing to get videos of themselves.

They go for the moment. That fleeting, beautiful moment of feeling alive. A social dance cannot be bottled up and preserved. To me, it’s almost like a sand mandala that the Tibetan Buddhists make. They create a complex work of art from sand and then destroy it, symbolizing the transience of life.

A social dance can be a mandala. You create this moment of expression, connection, and artistry, and then it’s gone. Realizing that the moment is short-lived makes it easier to let go of intimidation.

One dance is just a drop in the ocean of all of the dances that you’ll (hopefully) ever have in your life. One of my best friends lives by the mantra “There’s always more Salsa.”

You don’t just have one shot, and if you blow it, it’s over. You have dozens, hundreds, maybe thousands of chances to dance.

So take them! They’ll come and go before you know it. Each one will be different. Some will be amazing, transcendent, and life-changing, others will be awkward or forgettable. They’re just more threads in the tapestry of your dance life, adding richness, color, and texture.

But wouldn’t it be a shame if you never added those threads, never swam in that ocean, because you were too afraid or intimidated?

Take a cue from Lowe’s

I love Lowe’s motto “Never Stop Improving.” One of the best ways to battle intimidation on the dance floor is to constantly practice and improve.

Dance is a lifestyle that endures because there is always something new to learn. By practicing, learning new moves, watching videos, listening to music, and studying dance, you’re guaranteed to improve. Sure, you’ll hit plateaus or maybe not progress at the rate you think you should be going, but if you just keep moving forward, you will make progress.

You’ll feel more confident from your improving and create an “upward spiral.” The more you learn, the more you’ll be able to do, which will increase your confidence, and then increase your enjoyment.

Surround yourself with encouraging people

Having a “crew” with you on the dance floor can really help with intimidation. Or at least having one other person who you know and trust can help the dance floor seem less scary. Be careful to not lean to heavily on a friend as a crutch or create a clique that excludes other people. Have your crew around to increase your confidence and get warm-up dances in together, but don’t be afraid to fly solo.

Everyone feels self-conscious and fearful at some point when they are dancing. You are not alone. Don’t let your fears keep you from enjoying yourself. Social dancing is challenging, especially for people who are not naturally outgoing. Trust the process and embrace the challenge. As Wayne Gretzky said, “You miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take.”

What do you think? Does this help? Are you or have you been intimidated on the dance floor? What helps you overcome intimidation and have a good time?

Salsa Etiquette: Why You Shouldn’t Dip Your Dance Partners

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In Richie’s post on God Awful Dancers – which is a rather entertaining and worthwhile read – he mentions “The Screamer” who unexpectedly pierces your ears as soon as you do a dip. The fact is, nobody should ever meet The Screamer and she shouldn’t have been dipped in the first place. So, to avoid such embarrassments and do a service for all salsa men and women going forward, I’ve compiled the following wisdom on dipping etiquette.

Dipping looks great, it’s sexy, the pros do it, but you probably shouldn’t.

Every beginner salsa dancer romanticizes about giving or receiving that perfect sexy dip on a horn hit or to finish off a perfect dance. After all, it’s what we’ve seen so many times before. But there’s more to it than just to do it. Does your partner want one? Can you give one? Should you give one?

When it comes to dipping on the social dance floor, you’ll find that followers have all sorts of mixed feelings towards the act – some love it, some hate it and some are just plain scared of it (see The Screamer, mentioned above).

Dips can be sexy and dips can be fun, but when dips cause a broken nose, dislocated vertebrae or neck strain, they aren’t so cool anymore and they leave your partner in bad health.

Leads, your partner’s safety is your responsibility.

As the leader of the dance, the ball is in your court to make sure your partner has a comfortable and enjoyable experience. This includes knowing if dipping is on the menu or not. If you’re considering a dip or you’re someone who regularly whips your partners down into dips, check yourself…

  • Does your partner have the technical ability to be dipped safely?
  • Do you know how to dip properly and safely?
  • Does your partner trust you, a stranger?
  • Is there enough space on the dance floor?
  • Are there other couples around that could hit your partner?
  • Does your partner have an injury that might flare up?
  • Is your partner ready to expose what’s under that really nice dress?
  • Did you ask your partner if they’re okay with dips?

There are very few leads who go through that checklist before dipping, but you can be one of those awesome ones who doesn’t flash the crowd, tweak your partner’s spine, break a nose or make followers scream. Great opportunity to stand out, right?

There Are Exceptions

Naturally, there are some followers out there that love to be dipped! That said, the point of this post is to bring about awareness that not all followers desire to be dipped and that it’s a sensitive subject.

If you know your partner is game and you’re making an informed decision after mentally going through the above checklist (man, dipping is a lot of work, huh?), then here’s what to do next…

Guidelines To Follow Once You Know Dipping Is Okay

1) Consider your partner’s skill level and physical condition

Every follow comes with a different body type, set of abilities, strength, and coordination. Sticking to basic dips is best, especially with beginners. Leave advanced dips to when you’re dancing with a pro.

You might also like Dear Leads, Please Dance To My Level

2) Be aware of your surroundings

If it’s a crowded dance floor and there’s other couples around that’s danger zone red. It’s one thing if you can control yourself, but there’s no way to control what everyone else around you is doing. Make sure you have enough space and there’s no chance of a collision.

Check out How To Avoid Collisions On The Dance Floor

3) If you must dip, do it gently

There’s no need to be aggressive or a show-off. A dip can be simple, small, gentle and enjoyable all at the same time. Save your tricks for a performance.

There you have it, some simple guidelines to avoid hurting or scaring your friends on the dance floor. They’ll surely come in handy if you plan on showing up to the same party twice. Word of mouth travels fast amongst followers, especially when weirdos and rough or unpleasant partners are involved.

Have a dipping nightmare or fairy tale that just needs to be shared? Do tell! We all love stories, so indulge us in the comments section below.

Enjoyed this article and want more dance etiquette tips? Read Are You Sure You’ve Never Made Your Dance Partner Uncomfortable?

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How Thinking of a Dance Class as a Language Class Can Help Create Better Instruction

Teaching a dance class can be a lot like teaching a language class. I’d know. I teach both.

Let’s begin with some basic similarities:

  • Dance and language classes are often categorized by skill/proficiency level. Many dance academies offer beginner, intermediate, and advanced tracks for students so that they may receive content appropriate to their level of dancing. Language classes have similar nomenclature. For instance, this semester I’m teaching a Spanish language class titled “Advanced Grammar and Composition.”
  • Dancing engages analog skills to language learning. In language learning, there are four skills the learner needs to learn and master to become fully proficient: speaking, listening, reading, and writing. Arguably, we engage in the first three of these skills while dancing. Indeed, whomever is leading “speaks,” and whomever is following “listens”— the roles can reverse, of course; and we “read” the facial expressions of our partner to assess whether they are enjoying the dance. If we are feeling poetic, even the latter skill can be used in this metaphor; for it can be argued that we “write” with our hands and feet as we execute turn patterns. We tell a story.
  • Dance classes, like language classes, are not lectures. Language classes are very much the back-and-forth between the teacher and the students, and among students themselves. Sure, there is an explicit instruction component, but good language teachers spend most of their times getting students to practice the language through any combination of the four skills mentioned above. Similarly, dance classes allocate time for students to practice with music and with each other the content of that day’s lesson.
  • Ultimately, the goal of both types of classes is to push learners toward autonomy. A language class is all about giving students the necessary tools to engage with the language successfully when teachers are not there. Not every aspect of language can be covered in a classroom, and at some point, while out in the “real world,” language learners will encounter themselves in communicative situations which require them to think about language, not as a static phenomenon, but a dynamic, ever-changing process. Good language teachers foster skills that help learners adapt and respond to these new situations. Likewise, the goal of dance classes is not simply to teach turn patterns—or at least I think that shouldn’t be the goal—but to teach students the necessary skills to eventually go out into the “real world” and dance with people of all levels. And learners can only do that if they see dancing as they see language: not a static combination of turn patterns—or string of words—put together, but as meaning being constantly negotiated in the give-and-take that is a conversation/dance between two people.

Given these similarities between dance and language classes, it seems like a lost opportunity to me to not take advantage of the intersection created by looking at dance and language learning through the same lens. This seems particularly beneficial to me because, unlike the field of language learning, there is little-to-no research on the instruction of what people call Latin dances here in the U.S. Most of what teachers teach in their dance classes follows the format and/or techniques of what they have seen other teachers do, or the teachers from whom they personally learned. At dance congresses, when instructors from different parts of the country meet in one place, there is no such thing as an “instructor workshop” where new class management strategies and/or teaching methodologies are shared. There is no “course” dancers take to become instructors, exams they need to pass, certificates earned. From what I’ve observed, the transition from “dancer” to “dance instructor” is often a simple one: if you are a good dancer, you can teach.

In short, as far as methodology goes, a lot of “Latin dance” instructors are pretty much playing it by ear.

And this is where the similarities between dance and language classes come to a sudden, screeching halt. Unlike teachers of “Latin dances,” most people who want to teach language need to take at least one teaching methodology course before they even stand in front of any student—the implication here being that simply knowing how to speak the language does not mean you are qualified to teach it. Among other things, these classes help prospective teachers get up-to-date with the latest research in the field of language learning; introduce them to the different language processing strategies that research has shown their students use; and, most importantly, these classes delve into teaching strategies and methodologies that can help them become better language teachers and, by extent, foster better language learners.

Should “Latin” dance instructors go through a similar process before they teach? The question falls outside of the scope of this post. But if we can agree that language classes can be very similar to dance classes—and I hope that I made a good-enough case that you do agree with me on this—, then perhaps looking at good methodological practices from the language classroom can be a possible way to start to bridge that gap between the better-prepared language teachers and the less-prepared dance instructors.

That’s where the 80/20 rule of language instruction comes in.

Also known as the Pareto principle, the 80/20 rule states that 80% percent of the effects come from 20% of the causes. In language instruction, this principle has been modified to fit the necessities of the language classroom where, again, the objective is to push learners toward autonomy. The 80/20 rule of language instruction essentially stipulates that 20% of the time in the classroom should be spent on explicit instruction, while the remaining 80% of the time should be allocated toward student practice. Language is learned through practice, and learners cannot practice if the instructor spends most of the class time talking. That’s why this rule works and is accepted throughout many successful language classroom everywhere: it gets students to practice, practice, practice; to talk to each other and negotiate meaning; to become aware of which things they can say and cannot; to reflect when communication breaks down; to find a way to fix it when it does. All of this helps the students prepare for communicating in the real world.

This does not mean that the teacher doesn’t do anything. The role of the teacher is to come up with communicative activities that will maximize language production among students—among other things which I will not go into detail—and supervise the interactions, often offering feedback, help, or corrections as needed. After the usual ten minutes a grammar lesson should last (20% of a typical 50-minute class), the teacher, then, becomes a “communication facilitator.”

(Those perhaps aghast by the idea that language teachers may not be doing much “teaching” in the language classroom should know that studies have shown, time and again, that language learners will learn language regardless of instruction; and that instruction seems to only slightly accelerate the rate of acquisition. And that, again, it is the students who need to practice, not the teacher. These are aspects of instruction that language teachers review in their methodology classes precisely because a lot of prospective teachers come in thinking that teachers should carry all the weight of the classroom on their shoulders—we call this the “Atlas Complex”—and forget that it is the students who, ultimately, have to do the learning.)

The 80/20 rule works great in language classrooms. And seeing as dance classes can be very similar to language ones, students in dance classes may benefit tremendously from instructors applying this rule. Let’s see how.

The typical “Latin” dance class nowadays follows this general format: there is a turn pattern or two that are taught throughout most of the lesson. This involves the teacher(s) breaking down every eight-count of the turn patterns and having students repeat it with them several times; then the instructor(s) move to the next eight counts and there is more repetition; then again; and on and on until the turn pattern is done. Sometimes a song will be played every now and then to give students the chance to practice what they have been taught; sometimes, students practice at the end.

Many dance classes follow this format, which means that, if your class follows this format, most of the class is spent teaching/learning a turn pattern.

Which in turn means that most of the class was dedicated to instruction, not practice. Meaning the instructors talked quite a lot.

Now, it can be argued that learners were mimicking the instructor the entire time, so they were dancing—and then dancing some more when the music played. So, in truth, learners practiced the entire time, even as the instructors received most of the attention.

But practiced to what end, exactly?

There is a very common occurrence in language classrooms, and it begins with the teacher saying, “Repeat after me.” We call it a “drill.” Drills can be helpful with pronunciation, but as a whole, drills can be highly ineffective. For instance, I can make you repeat twenty different phrases in a language you don’t know. Will you learn anything? Of course not. You won’t even know what you are saying.

When a dance class is centered on a turn pattern, the entire lesson becomes a sort-of mechanical drill. It’s all about the “Repeat after me.” What the instructor does, the learner does. And when the music plays, it is played so that what was taught can be practiced.

So, yes, there is practice. But if we accept the proposition that the goal of any dance lesson is, like in language, to prepare learners for dancing out in the “real world,” then a lesson centered on a turn pattern like the one I described above, falls short of that goal. A lesson which objective revolves around the execution of a turn pattern is like a language lesson which main objective is to do drills. In classes like these, dance, like language, is seen as a static system of arbitrary rules. Indeed, if you think about it, there is little leading and following (“speaking” and “listening”) occurring. When learners practice the turn pattern at any point during the lesson, they are executing a known sequence; they know what it supposed to happen. Each dancer can basically execute their part without the other. There is no negotiation of meaning, no room for improvisation; no chance to think about how what is being learned fits into what has already been learned, and how to combine the old and the new information into a completely new turn pattern. That’s what drives the learner toward autonomy and helps them transition from the dance class into the social dance floor.

But much like a drill in language classes gives learners the impression that they are learning the language because they can conjugate a list of irregular verbs in past tense when in truth they can’t utter anything beyond that, the drill-like focus on turn patterns can give learners—specially beginner ones—the idea that they’re learning to dance because they can do a turn pattern when in reality they cannot do anything beyond what they’ve been taught.

That’s why many beginners have such a hard time dancing, or why dancing can seem pretty daunting at that stage. Beginners are taught the dance as a series of turn patterns. Given that beginners don’t know many turn patterns (notice how categories such as “beginner” or “intermediate” are very much turn pattern-oriented), they can understandably run out of material very soon and become discouraged from dancing—or bored, if they find themselves repeating the same things. Moreover, because they were not given the tools to negotiate meaning during class—they did not actually practice leading and following—their attempts at communication often break down when they are dancing socially, which can lead to relentless frustration.

Dance instruction shouldn’t focus so much on turn patterns. Turn patterns should be part of the lesson, but the objective shouldn’t be to get learners to do a turn pattern. That does not push them toward autonomy. What pushes them toward autonomy—again, if we can agree that a dance class’s objective should be to create dancers that can dance successfully outside of the class setting—is having less time to mimic the instructors, and more time to practice among themselves the contents of the day’s lesson—with instructors going around and offering feedback, comments, suggestions, etc., of course; otherwise, it’d become a dance social.

The 80/20 rule of language learning can be adapted very well to a dance class to fit this goal. It maximizes meaningful practice time and gives learners the chance to “play” with the dance; to become aware of things they don’t yet understand, and to cement those things they do; to see what works, and what doesn’t; to attempt to connect the contents of the day’s lesson with that of other lessons.

None of these things could be accomplished if the goal that is set for the lesson is to learn a turn pattern. Instructors need to let go of practices that highlight their role during the lesson and make them center stage, and embrace practices that focus more on getting learners to practice on their own. And that means toning down the emphasis on the turn patterns because what that does is teach learners to mimic what instructors can do, instead of allowing learners to figure out what they can personally do.

With this, I am not saying that turn patterns should not be taught. What I am saying is that turn patterns should play a secondary role in instruction. More beneficial for students—specially beginner ones—would be the focus on leading and following techniques that stem from the basic moves that are used to create a series of interconnected moves that we then end up calling a “turn pattern.” It would also be more beneficial to focus on giving learners the tools to put together different moves and create their own turn patterns—because isn’t that what instructors do when they come up with what they’ll teach? Even at the basic level, this can be done. Many a time I’ve taught in my casino lessons only three very basic moves and then shown some of the ways they could be combined to last an entire song so that it does not feel repetitive—and then encouraged students to find their own combinations of these same moves during practice. In other words, learners should be given the space to lead and follow whatever they feel they have the skill to lead and follow from what was taught in the lesson—and then, with the help of the instructor, be pushed to do just a little more. (This is another concept from the language classroom, known as “i+1”.)

Furthermore, learners knowing what is expected of them—and what they can expect from instructors—is paramount. Don’t ever think that expectations are implied. Short- and long-term expectations need to be made explicit in every lesson. The first step toward pushing learners to become more autonomous dancers is them knowing that the expectation that is set for any dance lesson is not buttressed on the idea that they must first know a number of turn patterns before they can really dance (that’s the implicit message in most turn pattern-centered lessons), but rather on the idea that learners at any level can dance by using what they know to create a dance experience that adjusts to their skills (I’ve always said that I’d rather do five moves all the time, and do them well, than do a hundred mediocre ones). If this is what is expected, learners will be more inclined to accept the new class dynamics in which students are the stars, and not the instructors—especially those who think the instructor is the sole factor in dictating whether or not learning occurs (not true)—, be more encouraged to learn to dance, and ultimately feel more rewarded when they do attempt to dance outside of the class setting.

By way of conclusion, I would like to point out that, with this post, I am not attempting to provide a definitive way of conducting a lesson. This is what I have found works for myself, based on my own experiences. At the same time, I understand that not all classes are the same; not all learners have similar needs; not all instructors share a uniform background. Other academies may use different strategies that work as well in getting their students to being autonomous dancers. And maybe you try this and find that it doesn’t work. Perhaps you find out that 20% of class time devoted to instruction is too little.

Whichever the case, what I seek to do here is to open the floor for a much-needed conversation about methodology.

Dance Spotlight – Gabriel “El Gavilan” Garcia

Gabriel “El Gavilan” (The Hawk) Garcia is in the Dance Spotlight!   You’ll find “El Gavilan” at a variety of socials across the metroplex. Check out some fun facts about Gabriel including his most embarrassing dance moment! Want to nominate someone? Contact us!

Where are you from?
Mexico.

Favorite DFW Dancers?
There are lots of people that I love to dance with! If we have a good connection while dancing, she has a friendly personality, and smiles or laughs often, then she is on the list!  The funny thing about dancing is that you don’t have to be good to look good or have fun. Connection and having fun is the key. Dance like nobody is watching!  You can have an amazing dance with someone that is not that good, but the connection is very strong. It may happen that you dance with someone who is advanced or a pro, but you have no connection at all.  You will count the seconds or minutes until the end of the song.

Favorite DFW Socials/Places to Dance?
The Pura events (Dallas & Fort Worth) are my favorites socials. On Sundays, I love going to Se Boto La Salsa at Los Comales first, then to Los Lupes.

Dance Pet Peeve: (Hygiene, No connection, People who teach while dancing, etc)
One thing that I don’t like at all is when girls dance with you, but they are way too serious and look like they want the song to be over.  Or they simply act like they are too good of a dancer or too pretty for most of the people.  For me, no one is more or less as everyone was a beginner at some point.

Favorite Dance Moment?
My birthdays! Each year a lot of the people celebrate with me. It amazing to feel the love of my friends and dance the night away. A funny moment was the night when my pants were ripped at a social and I had to wear my friends pants!  They were girly pants with a lot of girly bright stones on the butt. The legs part were too long and way too wide at the bottom.

Favorite Dance Genre?
DEFINITELY BACHATA! I don’t know what it is about bachata but it makes me dance even when there’s no music playing.

What dance movie title describes your attitude while dancing? Why?
“Saturday Night Fever (1977)”!  The main character (John Travolta) waits all week for Saturday nights, so he can dance the night away. Dance was his passion! A lot of us live, or used to live, to dance three to five times per week.  Some others dance six or seven nights a week. Dance is the most beautiful addiction!

Favorite dance video you’d like to share?
This is the video that made me fall in love with bachata.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2cehkSxOLNA

So You Think You Can Dance Afro House

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If you go to a big kizomba party or festival, at some point in the night there is sure to be an Afro House animation. The DJ changes the music to something upbeat and pulsating with energy. People line up facing the DJ booth or stage, then follow the moves of a leading artist. After a while another confident dancer may stride up to take over for a while or a different teacher may be pushed to the center. People copy the moves until they are too tired or sweaty or the DJ relents and brings it back to a semba or kizomba song.

Some people can’t wait for that point in the party. They find it revitalizes them. Other people roll their eyes, go check their phones, and maybe even call it a night if the set goes on longer than a few songs. I used to be one of them – but somehow in the past couple years I’ve become super excited about taking any African solo dance on offer at festivals.

I would attribute some of that shift to an amazing hour dancing Kuduro and Afro House behind an ever-smiling and tireless Paulo Cruz at the Hamburg Kizomba Gala. It was also partially because I was writing more about the nature of kizomba and its history, and I was interested in exploring the roots more. Maria Hover, organizer of the Ginga Festival, said it well: “Afro House and Kuduro show the influence from tribal dances from before. They help us connect better with the authentic movement. Afro House taught me how to move better in authentic kizomba.”

Introduction to African Dance

For most people in the kizomba scene, the Afro House set is how they first encountered any kind of solo African movement. For me it was Kuduro line-ups at big salsa parties. From Casablanca to Lyon to New York, the only time I saw Kuduro from 2010 to 2011 was as part of an animation or choreographed dance, usually performed to a Caribbean or Brazilian dance tune like Don Omar’s infamous “Danza Kuduro.” I assumed it was a recent Latin craze.

My first real encounter with Afro House was when my kizomba partner, Nelson Campos, insisted that we add some to our kizomba/semba show. I was very resistant to the idea. “Aren’t we supposed to be showcasing the dances we teach? I don’t know how to dance Afro House!”

Not only that, I was terrible at it. In spite of all the rehearsals we did, by the final performance I still looked like a jazz dancer.

And it wasn’t because I hadn’t taken any classes. I did go to Afro House and Kuduro classes at festivals, but their purpose also seemed to be animation. The classes were a game of “Do what I do – if you can keep up!” and trying to memorize the choreography du jour. I spent so much time trying to remember the basic blocking and order of the moves I never got any better at the actual movement.

Fortunately, things seem to be changing. Increasingly festivals are offering not just a single Afro House or Kuduro class, but a range of classes that include other African dance styles. The quality of instruction has improved to include assessment of and adjustment to students’ needs. Most importantly, more and more people are beginning to recognize the dynamic freedom of these various dances. Like me, they’re coming to class wanting to learn more than they can from line-ups at parties.

An Incomplete Alphabet

In a single weekend this month at Hamburg’s Ginga Festival I got to do workshops in six solo African dances. Here they are in alphabetical order, to avoid any question of hierarchy: Afro House (mixed origins), Afrobeats (Nigeria), Azonto (Ghana), Coupé Décalé (Côte d’Ivoire), Kuduro (Angola), and Ndombolo (Congo). While there are certainly many others out there, I’d say these six are pretty representative of the offerings I’ve seen across festivals in the last two years.

When it comes to the kizomba scene, the most commonly taught solo dances are Kuduro and Afro House. Kuduro has been party music for decades in Angola. The dance is a bridge between traditional tribal dances and modern African movement. Kuduro translates into English as “hard ass,” and the energetic leaps, squats, kicks, and various isolations that characterize Kuduro absolutely deliver on that name.

Afro House comes from the intersection of South African music and house. The dance is popular across several African countries and therefore varies wildly. I’ve even heard people say that they dance “Angolan Afro House” or “Afro House from Congo.” In most festival workshops, there’s no real explanation of what defines Afro House, and our objective as attendees is simply to fit the mold presented to us. Personally I have seen elements of many other dances in Afro House. I’m not knowledgeable enough to be confident naming names, but have a look at this excellent video. What do you recognize? Have you tried any of these styles?

Teaching Methods

A big shift I’ve noticed over the last few years is the way in which classes are run. Far more than a taster or additional animation, there is real pedagogy going on. I don’t mean to say that this was never happening before, but not to the extent we enjoy currently.

Picture this: a group of kids of mixed ages, playing Afro House from a phone. The younger ones copy the older kids, trying to figure out how to take on their confident flow. The most innovative explode in a flurry, showing off for the ones they want to find them attractive or cool. There is cutting, mocking, cheering, and ever more exploration of moving their bodies to this music.

Some teachers stick to the visual/kinesthetic learning emphasis of most movement cultures, in which students are expected to learn by watching and copying the movement. However, the teachers step back at some point to evaluate their students’ progress. They keep an eye out for which points are causing trouble. They slow down and offer additional repetition for these points. It’s no longer all about getting through a crazy choreography built to impress – there is a real intent to help students progress. Last month I spoke on this topic to Maymouna after an awesome workshop. She shared her perspective: “Quand tu es prof, tu dois prendre le temps, même si tu dois répéter 15 mille fois, de sorte que quand ils sortent ils ont appris quelque-chose. Je suis contre le rapide apprentissage et faire le star.”

“When you are a teacher, you have to take the time – even if it means repeating 15 thousand times – so that the students walk away having learned something. I am against rapid learning and acting like a star.”

Other teachers adapt their classes to include verbal explanations, helping auditory learners and students who did not grow up dancing and learning by copying their elders. They start with an explanation of what defines the music of this dance and what characterizes its movement. When they assess what is blocking students’ mastery, they offer word pictures that can help the students connect to the movement: “It’s like you are reaching up to a very high shelf” or “Imagine you are about to fall, you changed directions so fast.”

Perhaps the change is because the African dance teachers connected with the kizomba scene have gained so much experience. Many started out being pressured into the role of instructor and figured out teaching technique through trial and error. It might also be thanks to students’ increased interest in these dances or raised expectations from organizers for what attendees should gain from such classes.

Next steps

Picture this: a crowded club in Luanda. There’s a hot new Kuduro track ringing out. People are dancing in little clusters of friends. One person may go for the spotlight for a bit, getting intense with their creativity for a minute while the others keep the pulse and cheer them on. They play off each other, taking inspiration from one person’s movement and transforming it in one way or another to put together their next move. The energy flows among them in a complicated, vibrant exchange.

For me, this image is far more appealing than the top-down approach of an artist leading dozens of people in a game of “Do What I Do” for an hour. Line-ups are fun and are a great way to welcome in newbies or re-energize those flagging at a late-night dance or inspire an interest in these dances – but I think it’s a mistake to let them define African solo movement for us at kizomba festivals. Line-ups shouldn’t be the beginning and end of our solo dancing.

In many ways I think the workshops at festivals still fuel this mentality. While instruction has become more responsive, African solo dance classes are still always built around learning a choreography to a particular song. We should do these moves in this order, changing according to the direction of the teacher leading in front. “Many do it because it’s easier to manage a class when you’re on choreography,” Maria Hover explained. I understand that. It’s easier to measure the success of your class if your rubric is based on performing the choreography.

Beyond my personal struggle with learning choreography in class, I feel a strong desire to see the kizomba scene foster creativity when it comes to solo African dance. I come from a swing and blues dancing background, and in both styles we learn various solo moves with the intent of being able to put them together differently every dance. We learn about what in the music might inspire us to do this hip-focused move or that rhythmic variation with our feet, this smooth arm styling or that staccato isolation. We consider transitions between moves and how to create endless variations.

I think that more people will be excited about dancing Afro House late into a kizomba party if they are empowered to dance for themselves. I’d also bet that would bring more people out to these classes, providing motivation for learning to do solo movement well. I would also hope it would get the guys more excited. I don’t have statistics to back it up, but my experience in the last four years has been that girls are consistently a large majority in solo African workshops, and also outnumber men in lineups. In spite of the fact that men are more often to be found leading from the front of the party.

Line-ups are fun, but I believe that if we are truly going to embrace these dances as a community, we need to have classes aimed at helping us learn to move creatively and appropriately to the various African music genres – the way people do in the dance clubs of Nigeria, Ghana, Côte d’Ivoire, Congo, and Angola.

I wanted to write a lot more on this topic but I realized that my article was already really long! So, to learn more about these African dance styles, check out the links below:

Afro House
A Brief Lesson in Afro House
Afrobeats
From Afrobeat to Afrobeats
Azonto
Azonto in Afropedea
5 Amazing Things You Didn’t Know About Azonto
Coupé Décalé
Coupé Décalé in Afropedea
Kuduro
Kuduro: The Dance that Keeps Angola Going
Life, Music, Dance: Kuduro
Ndombolo
Learn to Dance Ndombolo

Dance Spotlight – Beatriz Meza

Beatriz Meza is in the Dance Spotlight!   Beatriz is very active in the DFW latin dance scene and you’ll find her at a variety of socials across the metroplex. Check out some fun facts about Beatriz including some of her dance pet peeves! Want to nominate someone? Contact us!

Where are you from?
I was born in a rural area in Guanajuato, Mexico, but I have lived in DFW since 1994.

Favorite DFW Dancers?
The dance community is filled with talented dancers that it is difficult to choose.  So, I’m just going to list my top 3 all time favorite bachata dancers that I love to watch dance both socially and on stage:  Ataca y la Alemana,  Edwin Ferrras and Daniela Grosso, and Elisa and Arturo.

Favorite DFW Socials/Places to Dance?
I love to go to Stratos on Wednesday, as it is one of the places I started dancing regularly. I also enjoy the Pura socials, and the Clave Fina socials.

Dance Pet Peeve: (Hygiene, No connection, People who teach while dancing, etc)
I don’t enjoy dancing with people who are too rough and force moves.  If I can’t do something you tried twice, please stop trying. Chances are, you are not leading right, or I’m just not familiar with the technique to follow back.  I love feedback when I’m in a class setting, but if I’m social dancing I just want to dance.  Unless I request your feedback, smile if I mess up and keep dancing.

Favorite Dance Moment? 
I don’t have a favorite moment, I just love to dance.  When I find a superb connection with someone, I just get lost in the moment. Those are my favorite moments, when my dance partner gets lost in the dance with me.  Such dances feel like no one else exists, it is just me, the music, and the person dancing with me. It’s like another world for those minutes that the song lasts.

Favorite Dance Genre?
I love dancing in general. If I knew more dance genres I would love them all.  But I mainly dance salsa and bachata. Somedays I’m more in the Salsa mood, somedays I’m more into the bachata mood.  But heck, I have days that I want to dance cumbia or merengue.  I just love to move!

What dance movie title describes your attitude while dancing? Why?
I don’t know if they describe my attitude, but I have watched Cuban Fury and Shall we dance several times. They make me feel happy when I watch them.  I do love the combination of persevering love and dance mixed together.

Favorite dance video you’d like to share?
This is one my favorite performances of all time. I love the subtlety of the dance.  When I watch this performance, I can feel the love story in the song come to life.

Dancing Through Parenthood: Juggling Family Life and Dance Life

At the Sunday afternoon pool party at Orlando Salsa Congress a few years ago, the thing that struck me the most was how many families were at the event. Parents had kids—from infants in arms to teenagers— out with them, listening to music, dancing, floating in the pool, watching the fun, and soaking up the sun.

There were multiple generations of dancers and dancers-to-be, and I loved that the parents were involving their kids in their dance lives. They didn’t have to choose—dance or family. They merged the two. I caught up with more dance parents, as well as the dancing mamas I interviewed last month, and got their take on having it a all—a dance life and a family life.

Dance might not be #1 anymore:

 

 For avid dancers, the transition to parenthood can be a big adjustment. Multiple nights in a row dancing, teaching, and rehearsing have to be replaced with nursing, diaper changing, and (hopefully) sleeping.

“Priorities change, schedules change, and you are absolutely no longer in control. As much as we like to think we are—our kids are the bosses!” says Elyse Inzinga, founder of Roc Dance Company and Roc with Me Kizomba Radio.

Katariina Gay, instructor at Wilmington Latin Dance and co-founder of Port City Salsa Splash, agrees that accommodating parenting and dancing schedules can be challenging.

“Time and energy is much more limited. Especially with a new baby who nurses every three hours, it can be a challenge just to get the grocery shopping done at times,” says Katariina. “Finding the balance between work, family, and dance is a constant work of progress. In our case, both of us (mom and dad) are dancers, so BOTH of us being able to enjoy a night out or travel out of town can be tricky.”

But parents who have to do more maneuvering to dance may savor their time on the dance floor more when they do manage to get there.

“I think that I try to squeeze as much joy as possible from dancing now. I think that I used to take it for granted before, but now that I have less time, or better yet, more concrete hours, I cherish every single step,” says Betto Herrera, director of Mambo Dinamico Dance Company in Raleigh, N.C and father to two-year-old Cruz.

Passing on the passion can be just as rewarding:

Benjamin Franklin said “Tell me and I forget. Teach me and I remember. Involve me and I learn.”

Though dancing parents don’t want to force dance on their children, involving kids in dance from an early age can teach life lessons that will stick forever.

Sherri Beth Mitchell, instructor with Soul of  Dancer in Charlotte, N.C.,  has involved both of her children, now teenagers, in dancing since she started seven years ago.

Her daughter Serenity, 13, especially took interest and is a budding dance enthusiast.

“She has started learning to lead, has joined our ladies performance team, and even took up a dance class in school. She is always asking which socials she can attend (in compliance with going to bed at normal hours on school nights), and attended her first salsa congress last year,” says Sherri Beth.

For a young person navigating the bumpy waters of teenage life, dance is a fantastic outlet and tool for growth.

“Dancing has helped boost her confidence tremendously,” says Sherri Beth.

Sherri Beth plans to take Serenity and her son Cody, 16, on the L.A. Aventura Dance Cruise this year “to expose them to a whole new world of dance and adventure.”

“Dance is where I lay all of my worries, fears, dreams, and excitement to be interpreted by my body movement to the music. It’s something which moves my soul as well as my feet, and I have never regretted starting to dance,” she says.

And she can only hope that her kids get the same benefits.

You can start your dance journey AFTER the kids:

Some people may have always wanted to dance, but once they had kids, put that desire on the back burner. It doesn’t have to be that way though.

Mia, a new dance student in Charleston, S.C, has found a love for Latin dance as her daughter Autumn, 14, is growing up.

“As a mom, I always feel a bit guilty taking time, effort, and money on something for myself. But Autumn is at an age now that I can leave her at home and go to class and take time for myself,” says Mia.

Mia and her husband have been able to take classes and go out dancing socially and not have to worry about coordinating childcare.

“It took awhile for me to start thinking about myself again. Now I can participate in the activities that make me happy. Dancing has been fun even though I’m a beginner. It makes me smile and enjoy something outside of my daily life. It’s very therapeutic!” she says.

Mia’s story is for all the would-be dancing parents who haven’t taken the leap yet. But some parents don’t wait until their kids are teens to pick up dancing.

Betto introduced new parents to Latin dance through his baby-wearing Salsa classes, where parents danced with newborns in carriers.

“We did it for a few months and had a blast with other families with newborn babies,” says Betto. An added bonus: the kids were always asleep by the end of the class.

 

Being a parent and being a dancer doesn’t have to be an either/or. Dancing parents all over the world are splitting their time between dance life and family life and inspiring their kids with a love for dance and music.

“A lot of times, I hear from dancers who leave the dance scene because they started a family. Without judging anyone’s decision, I think it’s very possible to have both, and share the love for dance with your child. Cruz knows that ‘Daddy’s job is Baila,’ and he always tells me when I’m about to leave—‘Daddy is going to Baila…do a good job, Daddy!” says Betto.

Dance Spotlight – Anthony Young

Anthony Young is in the Dance Spotlight!   Anthony is very active in the DFW latin dance scene and you’ll find him at a variety of socials across the metroplex. Check out some fun facts about Anthony including some of his favorite local dancers! Want to nominate someone? Contact us!

Where are you from?
I’ve been in Texas back and forth for a good part of my life.

Favorite DFW Dancers?
So many amazing up and coming dancers, I love to watch Jair Arias, Auturo and Elisa, Johan and Alyssa, and Amanda Brown. There is so much awesome talent. Shout out to my “Squad”.

Favorite DFW Socials/Places to Dance?
My favorite places to dance are Stratos on Wednesdays, the Pura Salsa events, Hot Bachata Nights Sunday’s with DJ Jose, and Salsa After Work at Chichos.

Dance Pet Peeve: (Hygiene, No connection, People who teach while dancing, etc)
My only dancing pet peeve is people taking themselves too seriously while dancing. Dancing is a release and should be enjoyed, not over-analyzed…For the love of God SMILE.

Favorite Dance Moment?
Every moment dancing is my favorite because I love it so much.

Favorite Dance Genre?
I go back and forth from Salsa to Bachata based on my mood.

What dance movie title describes your attitude while dancing? Why?
Shall We Dance with Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers (1937) or Dance With Me (1998).

Favorite dance video you’d like to share?
This video from B.I.G. last year is one of my favorites. It features two of my absolute favorite dancers, Magna Gopal and Terry Tauliaut!